1. Be yourself! As hard as it may seem, be the person he first fell in love with, it is important to be as happy as possible.And just a tip, actually to to "be" happy. Trust me, he will be able to tell if youre a fake or not. Oh, and one more thing, dont take the phrase "Be Yourself" too seriously, no matter what the magazines say. Its going to make you look desperate if you dress like your going to the prom, but it will indeed make you look like a hag if you wear those old sweatpants and a tee shirt youve had for eight years. Dress cute, not too cute tidy a little make up not over top feel comfy .
2. Stand your ground in a nice way dont be a push over and take what he says! Dont be mean to him Dont cry or show your feelings like women do keep them under your hat men just cant deal with this ,, laugh really loud when he walks by, flirt with other guys, or ask your friends to see if he still likes you. Look honey. Hes not gonna admit to liking you, no matter how he feels! Why? It makes him feel powerful. Okay maybe not the mean part, "that" just hurts his feelings and makes him hate you. Do you really want to get yourself into that mess?
3. "Act be a bit aloof too! like you dont care that youre not together anymore." Thats what the old article said before I improved it. Let me just tell you now, that is WRONG. WRONGWRONGWRONG. You must NOT care that your not together anymore. Dont act like the confident person you wish you were, BE HER! You can find someone else wonderful who WILL love you back!
4. Be a friend. Not a frinimy, not a bestie, just a friend. MY golden rule, and I quote from the BIBLE, (yeah thats right, Im a christian) - "Treat others how you wish to be treated." Yeah, its true.
5. Drill it into your head that you dont need him. You dont. And dont waste your time writing down 4,000 reasons that your awesome, youll have plenty of time to think about it when you get out of your house! Go for a walk, bike ride, or just sit outside. Being crammed in your house where you have no fresh air will NOT help you.
6. Dont try to get his attention by laughing really loud when he walks by or flirting with other guys. It will only make him jealous. Its not like hes gonna crawling back to you and beg for mercy, anyway.
7. Youll be able to tell if hes trying to be your friend, enemy, or boyfriend. Kindness = friendship. Rudeness = enemies. References to break up = boyfriend. DONT be his enemy. If you choose to take him back, dont seem too excited. But no matter what, be a friend and REMEMBER MY GOLDEN RULE!
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