The other day I was watching a television show where the heroine stopped at nothing to destroy her ex boyfriend’s current relationship. She made it her mission to not only break them up, but to ruin both of their lives. Perhaps you are wondering what this has to do with anything. Well, I think one of the most important parts of a break up is how you handle yourself afterwards.
There are a few different ways to avoid being “the crazy ex girlfriend.” It may be difficult, and I will admit I may have broken a rule or two myself, but if you stick to these guidelines you may be able to keep your dignity when parting ways with your ex.
As challenging as it may be, do not continue to contact them. I know it can be easy to make excuses, but you may appear desperate if you constantly call them. Besides, it seems as if you have nothing else going on in your life. Deep down you know you were fine before them, and you will be just fine after, so try to maintain that mentality.
Another way to avoid seeming psychotic is to never “randomly” end up places where your ex is. I met a girl who would purposely go out of her way to end up wherever her ex boyfriend happened to be. She thought that if he continued to see her, he would miss her. While there is some method to her madness, the truth is he can’t miss you if you never go away. If you create some space it will produce necessary independence for both parties involved.
The last thing you should never do is beg your ex to take you back. It can be hard not to plead with him or her, and insist that you have changed your ways, but ultimately you will look much better if you just deal with your break up. I know it is hard, but we both know you do not want their last memory to be of you groveling at their feet.
As challenging as it may be, do not continue to contact them. I know it can be easy to make excuses, but you may appear desperate if you constantly call them. Besides, it seems as if you have nothing else going on in your life. Deep down you know you were fine before them, and you will be just fine after, so try to maintain that mentality.
Another way to avoid seeming psychotic is to never “randomly” end up places where your ex is. I met a girl who would purposely go out of her way to end up wherever her ex boyfriend happened to be. She thought that if he continued to see her, he would miss her. While there is some method to her madness, the truth is he can’t miss you if you never go away. If you create some space it will produce necessary independence for both parties involved.
The last thing you should never do is beg your ex to take you back. It can be hard not to plead with him or her, and insist that you have changed your ways, but ultimately you will look much better if you just deal with your break up. I know it is hard, but we both know you do not want their last memory to be of you groveling at their feet.
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