Showing posts with label space. Show all posts
Showing posts with label space. Show all posts

Friday, May 13, 2016

Your Question How To Get My Wife To Love Me Again Your Answer Here

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Its a tough one youve been asking yourself for a while now. . . "How to get my wife to love me again?"
There are many avenues that need to be explored when coming up with an answer to your question and of course the answers depend on your specific situation and circumstances. But there are some basic strategies that any man can apply towards gaining his wifes love back.
First, you need to figure out why your wife has stopped loving you (or why she says that she doesnt love you anymore, even if that may not be true).
What are some common reasons for this?
Reason Number 1:
Ive lost my wifes love because I had an affair and she found out.
Reason Number 2:
My wife found someone new that she feels is better than me.
Reason Number 3:
I havent stuck to my promises and agreements. I promised her that I would change my attitude or some of the things that annoy her but I havent done so. This has lead to disappointment and loss of hope on her part.
Reason Number 4:
I neglected my wife in her eyes. I didnt give her the love and attention she needed.
Reason Number 5: I tried to control everything she did. I didnt allow my wife enough freedom and space to do what she wanted.
Once youve identified the reason or combination of reasons, you can start to go to work on the problem. Many marriages that fail do so because the real problems arent really understood. Communication is a huge part of making the marriage work - and men think differently than women so even if you think you know how your wife feels about something (because thats the way you feel), chances are you probably dont. So talk to her.
Without the right communication, its really hard to resolve and kind of conflict, big or small. The right kind of communication will allow your damaged relationship to start recuperating and later to thrive if you give your wife the opportunity to share her dreams, concerns, hopes and desires with you.
If your wife has conceded to trying in the marriage again, dont just go back to what wasnt working. Keep things interesting, do little things to show your wife how much you love and appreciate her or do something pleasantly surprising.
Keeping your promises is another important part of the equation. If you havent kept your promises in the past, start doing so now. Your past broken promises have no doubt ruined the trust in your relationship but you can start repairing that now.
Finally, give your wife the space and time she needs. Let her know that you are there for her but dont smother her.
Hopefully the above information is enough to get you started working on your solving your big concern of "How to get my wife to love me again".
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Thursday, April 21, 2016

Win Love Back Allow Your Ex Time Space

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Do you want to win love back?  The key is allowing your ex to have a little bit of time to figure out what they want from the relationship.  Tim and Rhonda learned this from Tim’s friend Joe.
Rhonda stormed out of Tim’s apartment one day saying she never wanted to see him again.  Tim was stunned.  All he could think about was how to win love back. 
He called his buddy Joe and asked whether he should send flowers or candy.
“Neither,” Joe said.  “And don’t call, email, or text her either.”
Tim was stunned by this advice.  He wanted to win love back right away before Rhonda had a chance to “look around” and find someone better.
But Joe told Tim that giving Rhonda the space to “look around” was just what she needed.  There was a small chance that she would go forever, but the probability was that she would settle down and come back to him.  She must come to the conclusion that their relationship was special on her own terms.
Further, Joe advised, it would be bad if Tim looked too desperate.  This gave Rhonda the upper hand in many ways.  It would lead to further grand gestures in the future.  If he wanted to get the relationship back on track, Tim needed to give Rhonda space.
Tim and Rhonda both had a lot invested in the relationship.  They had been together 18 months and had even talked about marriage.  This was why it was such a blow to Tim when Rhonda walked out.
But Tim took Joe’s advice, as painful as it was, and waited for Rhonda to call.  It took her four days, but she finally contacted him.
The first thing she wanted to know was “why didn’t you call me?”  He told her “I was waiting for you to call.  I knew you needed space.”
He was right, and she knew it.  She actually appreciated the fact that he hadn’t called.  She knew that he had found a way to win love back.
As they talked about hwere their relationship had been and how to get it back on track, they discovered that one of the problems was that they had been crowding one another.  The thought of getting married had been suffocating.
So, they decided to back off.  They would still see each other exclusively, but they would make more time for friends and solo activities.  They wouldn’t talk about marriage again for six months.
Tim restrained himself from pursuing Rhonda when she needed space.  This allowed her to reevaluate her relationship with him on her own terms.
She initially thought that he would call her all the time.  She was actually surprised that he didn’t.  But, because he refrained from contacting her, she was able to see what her life was like without him in it.  And, it wasn’t as pleasant as she had imagined it would be.
So, if you’re determined to win love back, keep in mind that sometime what is needed is a little space.
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